NZ Spirit Resolution NYE festival

To be unchained

To be liberated

To be wiser. Like proverbs says.

To identify triggers to bad habits

And pull the handbrake before making bad decisions that I'll regret the consequences of.

To be aware of the feelings and thoughts

To change the environment that Tiggers them.

Habits

Howick time

At the beach,

Feeling the breeze.

Swimming without a care...

As of time weren't there

I was once young

But now have grown

Being old,

Where has time gone

vocation and family

There will always be nice places to see,

But not time with family.

how to be calm

 how does one prepare to be calm in a certain situations..

you have to work on your personality behind closed doors

we can't be how we want to be in the moment when it happens,

we've got to set a foundation

is not about speaking less, but listening more beforehand.

" i dont want to be a whiny CE"

but the truth is, we should rasie up more questions..

i did my performance review today with the manager.

it was good..

however i wished i composed myself a little better

not as some one desperate.

but someone calm and level headed.

not about asking questions or raising issues/concerns that have nothing to do with the benefit of the company..

but.. what does the manager want to hear that will be of use to higher ups?

what others are saying doesn't matter, dont need to jump in the same boat as others

saying the same things that have already been said...

say the things that matter

SPEAK LESS,

\but SPEAK WELL

like the bible says: be a man of less words 

Therefore, intentionally talk less and be wise. “My dear brothers, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry” (James 1:19)

“Even a fool is thought wise if he keeps silent, and discerning if he holds his tongue” (Proverbs 17:28).

When words are many, sin is not absent, but he who holds his tongue is wise. Proverbs 10:19  

be a light, be an encouragement,

bring joy

that is what you're here on this earth for

not about being gurmpy and all

simplicity, minimalism,

don't be grumpy