nicely written

 https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/two-sides-quote-what-gets-measured-managed-dr-eng-esteban-marks-mfn3f/

good way to write post,

benefits on one hand,

pitfalls on the other..

four-four points

normally people always only write the good part,

but leave out the bad..

i like that this post highlights some shortcommings:
"

1. Not Everything That Counts Can Be Counted: While metrics are important, not everything valuable can be boiled down to a number. Aspects like company culture, employee morale, and brand perception are challenging to measure accurately but are essential.
2. Overemphasis on What's Measurable: If an organization only focuses on measurable aspects, it might overlook other crucial elements. There's a risk of becoming too myopic, missing out on the bigger picture.
3. False Sense of Control: Just because something is being measured doesn’t mean it's under control. Relying too heavily on metrics might give a misleading sense of mastery over a situation.
4. Potential for Manipulation: When performance is tied to specific metrics, it can incentivize behaviors aimed at improving those numbers, sometimes at the cost of genuine progress or ethical considerations."

well written

regrets. CNY 2025

 what has this world to offer?

went back from CNY to malaysia.

just got back to dunedin...

stayed over at auckland for one night.

slept in an aiport hotel that had free shuttle bus.

didn't buy any specific presents for the siblings this time around....

wish i could have brought back the raspberryPi for taikor and jonah

and give each of the niece and nephews NZ coins

or even a single silver coin for their red packets...

it would have been so easyto get it in Auckland compared to dunedin

cause of NZ mint... unless i'll be okay with shipping it...

sigh.. i thought i would be using the Pi over here.... thats why i didn't dring it back..

thought i could make stuff with the free time i have.. who am i kidding......

thought i could just buy one in malaysia if i wanted to give it to jonah for his birthday...

who am i kidding..... 

there's no time....

the only time we have is the moment we think about something..

adn if we dont action it in that moment. it goes..

i wanted to bring back a reflex toy for the kids..

like the beep-it bop-it..

but you can get that in toy's r us.... just that.. i didn't have the time.

didn't even wrap presents..

horrible..

horrible horrible

don't celebrate brithdays..

or valentines..

or anniversaries

no more gifts.

spouse love langugae is acts of service...

what kind of service..

sigh..

horrible husband

horrible brother

horrible dad

horrible son

whis i spent more time with noah back during the holidays

watched terminator zero. time travel and fate

played cyberpunk 2077 on xiao jiu's ps4

only when boy went to sleep there aws time

other that that it's so busy and tiring

didn't post pictures on FB.. my 2025 resolution ins to not use FB

it's tough...

what outlet then?

maybe i should change it to... not use FB on the phone

still can post stuff?

i dunno

life is so..

conflicting

i regret what i said at the dinner table on the last night at charity's house

to yewmeng...

infornt of everyone

about the prayer beads

i said " i go for silent retreats" what kind of snobbish reply is that?

totally no humility at all!

i really like them.

i wish i used them more often

i find them useful

just that i don't have the time

i ronically

its supposed to help with focus and medidation practices

the goals i have

buy no.

i'm just..

snobbish

i havent changed yet

wont be going back for two years

but i guess i should still be able to buy gifts for them and shipp it using amazon

afterall the microbit and coding book did reach taikor

and it wasn't too pricy?

i regret

i wish i  could turn back time